Blog #75~ 5 Reasons I am Thankful for Nick
The road I have travelled with Nick was not in the plan. It’s the thin, grey line on the map that is bumpy and full of twists and turns. Nick has Down syndrome and autism. The pace was bogged down as he struggled to hit developmental milestones. Other times it has been lightning fast, (like when you are racing to beat him to an exposed fire alarm). After 19 years and 30 fire alarm pulls, I am very thankful for Nick and here is why:
1. I appreciate the small successes much more now. I don’t take anything for granted that a child has to learn like sitting, eating, crawling, walking, talking and especially toilet training. Each victory has been sweeter when Nick hit the marks.
2. I am more grounded because of Nick. He has taught our family to stay humble. While other moms were bragging about their child getting A’s in honors classes, being the star athlete and what colleges they were looking at, I smiled politely. In my mind I was thinking, “At least Nick didn’t pee in his pants at school this week.”
3. I’ve become some what of an expert on Down syndrome and autism. Through trial and error along with wonderful teachers, therapists and mentors I have learned what works best for Nick. I am now able to pay it forward in my writing, speaking engagements and helping other parents out.
4. Life is never boring with Nick. He cracks me up with his mischievous ways. He generates laughter and tons of “Likes” on my Facebook page: Down syndrome With A Slice Of Autism”.
Here’s Nick’s signature elbow bump, (his version of a high five) with his Dad and Aunt Laura 🙂
He’s got that look on his face like, I’m going to grab your wine) 🙂
What a jokester, hardy har har Nick……
5. Nick gives unconditional love so freely. Each morning he wakes up, lets out a fart and smiles. All through the day he showers me with kisses, elbow bumps and hugs.
I am truly thankful to have travelled down this road with Nick. It has been a blessing to be his mom. That’s what is in my noggin this week. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
7 thoughts on “Blog #75~ 5 Reasons I am Thankful for Nick”
Teresa, really enjoyed your top five reasons you are thankful to be Nick’s Mom! Gratitude is an attitude and has little to do with the facts of the situation and everything to do how you greet life every day. Thankful indeed is the way to approach life with Nick. He is a gift! Thanks for sharing!
Jim, I always appreciate your feedback and wisdom. I am so thankful for our friendship and all the support you give me. 🙂
Great blog T! So much to be thankful for…. Happy Thanksgiving! Miss you!
Thanks Erica, have a wonderful Thanksgiving my friend. Miss you girl, classes aren’t the same without you.
Great post!! I love learning from those who have traveled this road ahead of me.
In was Nick’s first grade teacher. What a gift that was for me. I was delighted to see this on Facebook today. It is so great to hear he is doing so well.
Great to hear from you! The picture of you and Nick from your wedding still sits on the dresser in his room.😀