Blog #75~ 5 Reasons I am Thankful for Nick
The road I have travelled with Nick was not in the plan. It’s the thin, grey line on the map that is bumpy and full of twists and turns. Nick has Down syndrome and autism. The pace was bogged down as he struggled to hit developmental milestones. Other times it has been lightning fast, (like when you are racing to beat him to an exposed fire alarm). After 19 years and 30 fire alarm pulls, I am very thankful for Nick and here is why:
1. I appreciate the small successes much more now. I don’t take anything for granted that a child has to learn like sitting, eating, crawling, walking, talking and especially toilet training. Each victory has been sweeter when Nick hit the marks.
2. I am more grounded because of Nick. He has taught our family to stay humble. While other moms were bragging about their child getting A’s in honors classes, being the star athlete and what colleges they were looking at, I smiled politely. In my mind I was thinking, “At least Nick didn’t pee in his pants at school this week.”
3. I’ve become some what of an expert on Down syndrome and autism. Through trial and error along with wonderful teachers, therapists and mentors I have learned what works best for Nick. I am now able to pay it forward in my writing, speaking engagements and helping other parents out.
4. Life is never boring with Nick. He cracks me up with his mischievous ways. He generates laughter and tons of “Likes” on my Facebook page: Down syndrome With A Slice Of Autism”.
Here’s Nick’s signature elbow bump, (his version of a high five) with his Dad and Aunt Laura 🙂
He’s got that look on his face like, I’m going to grab your wine) 🙂
What a jokester, hardy har har Nick……
5. Nick gives unconditional love so freely. Each morning he wakes up, lets out a fart and smiles. All through the day he showers me with kisses, elbow bumps and hugs.
I am truly thankful to have travelled down this road with Nick. It has been a blessing to be his mom. That’s what is in my noggin this week. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!