Blog #195~ Being a Firestarter
What is the difference between those bold enough to pursue their dreams and others who never get comfortable enough to ignite their lives? The doers are “Firestarters” and, because of them, the world is a much different, and often, better place.
Are you looking for a way to ignite your life and dreams? Firestarters-How Innovators, Instigators and Initiators Can Inspire You To Ignite Your Own Life, is a new book released last week; that will help you to do so. As I wrote in last week’s Blog #194, Firestarters are innovators, instigators and initiators that get things accomplished. Recently I had the opportunity to interview one of the co-authors of this new and powerful book, Paul Eder along with a featured Firestarter, David Egan who is an advocate for special needs. This week, I am sharing more on these interviews about being FIRESTARTERS!
David Egan is the first person with an intellectual disability to be awarded a Joseph P. Kennedy JR. Public Policy Fellowship, he made history by working on Capitol Hill with the Ways and Means Social Security Subcommittee. David Egan, born with Down syndrome, is a trailblazer for others who have intellectual disabilities.
He believes in promoting the idea of people with disabilities having special talents. David states that people with intellectual disabilities should be included in as many sectors of our society as possible, and being featured as a leader in this book makes made him proud. The most important part of his advocacy is to demonstrate that people like himself are Valued, Able, and Ready to work.
“We are citizens that matter and we belong in our community.” -David Egan
“People with intellectual disabilities do not want pity; we want respect, inclusion, and the opportunity to reach our full potential like any other citizen.” -David Egan
Paul Eder is the co-author of Firestarters along with Raoul Davis JR. and Kathy Palokoff. From early on, Paul Eder wanted the book to be inclusive. He has a 6-year old son, Brady who has Down syndrome and believes his potential is limitless. Paul says that a Firestarter is partially defined by the impact you have on others. His son, Brady has certainly impacted his life. Paul hopes his son’s achievements go beyond and push the boundaries like David Egan.
I asked Paul how he plans to use the concept of Firestarters to help navigate his son through school and working with IEP team members?
Paul said that, “The IEP (Individualized Education Plan), generally taps into a number of the concepts we discuss in the Firestarters book, but the section on Accelerants is very relevant. Accelerants include: Mission-focused behavior, Cooperation, Constructive competition, sweat equity (working hard), and support seeking.”
Paul goes on to further state this about IEP’s:
“An IEP certainly focuses on the mission surrounding your child’s educational path. From a cooperation perspective, the IEP defies all the supporting partnerships that are necessary to propel his success. All of the IEP goals are measurable, which gives it a competitive flair. We want the goals to be challenging but not impossible, and we want to be able to compare his progress against some standard of success (e.g., grade-level expectations). My son has a daily behavior log where his social and academic behaviors are tracked. From this sheet, we are able to tell whether he is putting in his full effort and devoting the sweat equity needed to learn. Support-seeking is an obvious one.”
“The IEP team is a support structure in itself. As parents, we can’t be afraid to ask the questions needed of the team and push for the supports required to ensure his success.” -Paul Eder
I asked Paul how can someone support the Firestarters in their lives, especially those with potential but who may have special needs?
In the book we define 4 types of supporters based on the research we conducted:
1.Nurturers listen and help you follow through with your ideas.
2.Motivators get you moving. They are people like Tony Robbins who exude an energy that make you want to be a better person.
3.Illuminators are the teachers in your life who help you grow socially and intellectually.
4.Protectors are the people who defend you when others won’t.
A FIRESTARTER, seeks support to fan their flame, and finds ways to limit the influence of Extinguishers.
As we begin 2018, what do you want to accomplish? Find the people who can support you and don’t allow the extinguishers to have power over your life. We’ve all met FIRESTARTERS, and seen what they’ve accomplished. They create, disrupt and start things. The book FIRESTARTERS interviewed successful entrepreneurs, CEO’s, organizational leaders, advocates and forward thinkers from a variety of professions to find out what makes them tick. There are step by step guides to teach you how to join the ranks in whatever you want to accomplish.
For more information about FIRESTARTERS click here: https://goo.gl/4VmHKo
Thank you to Paul Eder and David Egan for sharing your inspiring stories of being FIRESTARTERS, who make the world a better place! That’s what is in my noggin this week.