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Blog#257~DS-ASD=Taking on Transitions

Blog #257~DS-ASD=Taking on Transitions

The challenges faced by individuals with co-occurring Down syndrome and autism (DS-ASD) are complex. These can include communication deficits, cognitive delays, sensory processing issues and rigidity. Transitions can be tough, moving from one activitiy to another, changing venues, staff and caregivers can all be stressful. Predictability and consistency are key components which help individuals with DS-ASD cope in a world that moves fast. My son Nick is 29 years old, and has co-occurring DS-ASD. Many of the families that I’ve worked with over the years find transitions to be hard to navigate. There are many evidenced based practices which can help support your child.

Here are 5 Tips for Taking on Transitions:

1. Figure out “the why”. Do a little detective work to determine what might be triggering the resisistance to moving forward. Possible antecedents might be sensory overload (loud noises, crowds, etc), changing from a preferred activity to a non-preferred activitiy, not understanding what comes next and not feeling in control. These are just a few examples of why they might be struggling. Once you determine the function of the behavior, then you can put some supports in place.

2. Use a visual schedule to help provide an effective cue to move to another activity or venue. There are many apps available as well including First-Then, Kids ToDo List, and Visuals2Go.

3. Allow for processing time. Give advance notice when an activity is coming to an end, and when it will be time to move to the next. Visual timers are great tools to help with transitions. Here are two of my favorite timer apps which include the Countdown Timer and Timed Timer:

4. Create a social story to help provide a clear and predictable framework for what will happen next, what to expect and how navigate a new experience. Use the social story like a pre-game rehearsal. This allows the individual to understand what to expect, how to behave and give them a “buy in” to the transition.

5. Give verbal and non-verbal praises and provide a reward such as a transition object to help motivate the child. “Good job walking and staying close”, thumbs up/smiley face icons, high fives can all reinforce successful transitions made throughout the day. Transition objects guide the child over the bridge that encourages moving from point A to point B. The object should be highly preferred, motivating and limited access so that it keeps their interest.

Providing support for individuals with DS-ASD to assist with transitions can ease stress by helping them understand what will be happening throughout the day. It also allows the child to feel more in control over their life. For more information and tips on navigating co-occurring Down syndrome and autism, scroll the archives of this blog and check out my book A New Course: A Mother’s Journey Navigating Down Syndrome and Autism click to order here: https://amzn.to/2W3Un6X

That’s what is in my noggin this week 🙂

~Teresa

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Blog #177~Nick’s Vacation Fun 2017

Blog #177~Nick’s Vacation Fun 2017

Each year we take a vacation to the shores of the Outer Banks in North Carolina.  This summer we added an extra leg to the trip, spending the first week in Virginia.  Nick’s aunt and uncle own property with old tobacco barns they’ve renovated into beautiful living spaces.  This area is located above the banks of the James River.  My son Nick is 23 years old and has Down syndrome and autism.  The quiet country life seemed to agree with him.

Nick Swing VA

Nick enjoyed his time in Virginia, especially the rides on the John Deer “Gator”. 🙂  The renovated tobacco barns were made into living spaces.  They were very accommodating and cozy.

Gator ride

Nick got very relaxed as we did some kayaking on the James River….

Kayaking

Kayaking the James River was very soothing for Nick…..

James River

Gator tour of property with 100+ year old barns

barn va

One of the highlights for me was touring Thomas Jefferson’s estate, Monticello.  Thomas Jefferson has always been my favorite president.  He was a visionary, who had big dreams to expand our country which included exploring science, architecture, paleontology and much more.  Monticello was the center of Jefferson’s world.  When touring his home and plantation high on the mountain top, you can feel the inspiration of his timeless ideas.

Monticello

The second part of the vacation was our annual trip to the Outer Banks, NC (OBX).  We shifted gears from country living to beach life.  When you see these signs, it’s time to relax and turn the knob to Bob, 93.7 FM.  Destination, Duck, NC!

OBX signs

Nick enjoyed his travel companion, Cali who decided to make herself comfortable on his lap on the road trip from Virginia to OBX 🙂

Nick and Cali OBX

Our gracious hosts, Uncle Ron and Aunt Ali also have a beautiful home in OBX.  Nick feels very comfortable staying there for several years.  Cali, their dog seems to be very content as well…..

Ron and Ali OBX

Our backyard view for the week…

OBX crows nest

Nick had a great time, and we even got him on the beach on several occasions.  He’s not a big fan of the texture of sand and heat, due to the sensory issues associated with having autism.  But we pushed his boundaries and he did great sitting under the umbrella with his legs propped up.

Beaching it with his bro…..

Nick and Bro on beach

The house also has a pool that Nick splashed around in each day….

Nick pool obx 2017

Happy hour at the crow’s nest with his “stim” of choice, the tappers!

nick crows nest 2017

Summer 2017 vacation was a great success!  There was not a single fire alarm pull or call button pushed while on the airplane.  Nick stayed on an even keel with his behavior.  The only outburst occurred on my birthday at the Aqua Restaurant, located on the sound side of the island.  Towards the end of our meal, Nick was done and stood up.  His Dad tried to get him to sit back down, but he wanted no part of it.  As Al motioned him back to the chair, Nick yelled “God Dam#*it”, which echoed out, silencing the entire dining area. There was a notable pause with all eyes glaring at our table.  Autism spoke loudly in that moment.  Fortunately, things did not escalate, and we allowed him to remain standing as we finished dessert and settled up the tab.

It was a fun and relaxing two weeks in Virginia and the Outer Banks.  The success of such a trip comes with using picture icons to help him navigate his days and anticipating possible triggers of Nick’s behavior.  We watch his body language for things that might spark a meltdown, and cut it off at the pass or redirect quickly, before things escalate.  Yes, we pushed the boundaries by trying new things like kayaking, riding on the gator on a property tour, and longer & more frequent trips to the beach.  But each was met with praise and rewards (Sprite, iPad, salami) along with elbow bumps.  And don’t forget the tappers, or stim of choice that your child needs to regulate thier sensory needs,

Keep pushing the boundaries with your child, and don’t limit what you think they can handle on a vacation.  It’s worth a try for your child and the whole family.

OBX View

As I post this final picture, I treasure the new memories made on this vacation.  And as Ali told us before departing, “Try to stay in beach mode as long as you can”.  That’s what is in my noggin this week. 🙂

~Teresa

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