Posted in Autism, Behavior/ ABA, Fun Side of Nick

Blog #68~Hardy Har Har 2

Blog #68~ Hardy Har Har 2

Sometimes I think Nick would rather tease than eat.  Well, unless it’s a big bowl of pasta, then all bets are off.  Having a dual diagnosis of Down syndrome and autism has made it difficult for him to verbalize speech.  It hasn’t stopped him from showing his funny side.  In Blog #39~Hardy Har Har, I explored Nick’s his sense of humor. Check this blog out @https://nickspecialneeds.wordpress.com/2013/01/28/blog-39hardy-har-har-nick/  This week I have some new gems to share.

Silly guy wearing the blue blanket on his head 🙂

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He knows he is going to get a laugh out of me here….

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Plunk, this is funny stuff….

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Ha, good one Nick. Way to drop the lime in the pasta water….

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Uh oh, another dribble from the second floor stairwell…In Blog #3~Getting Your Goat, you can see a lot more of these. Check it out @https://nickspecialneeds.wordpress.com/2012/04/17/blog-3-getting-your-goat/

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I try to stay one step ahead of him but it’s not easy.  His latest trick is to push the spout on the coffee maker and let it the hot, brown stream run over the counter and trickle down the white cabinet drawers leaving a puddle on the floor.  He also has taken to dropping toys, remotes, phones and an assortment of things behind the flat screen TV.  One thing that is helping is to catch him before he commits the act.  I show him this icon quickly before he initiates the problem behavior.  It seems to be helping him to regulate those impulses.

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In addition, I use the happy face icon to catch him being good as often as I can…..

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Like when he is unloading the dishwasher (and wearing my high heels)  hardy, har har Nick…..

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Finding ways for Nick to get attention appropriately also helps keep his behavior in check.  I am always stocking up on fun things for him….

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My friend, Kelli found this cool light up ring.  Nick took a fancy to it….

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I looked over a few minutes later and saw that he had made it a toe ring…. 🙂

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And who doesn’t crack up over a bloody hand….

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Hope you enjoyed the light hearted fare this week.  I feel very blessed that Nick is so happy. Yes, his antics drive us bonkers and wear on our nerves.  But he brings a great light and humor to each day. Hey, its Nick’s world….the rest of us are just trying to keep up.  That’s what is in my noggin this week! 🙂

~Teresa

Posted in Autism, Down syndrome, Feeding, Personal Hygiene, Toileting

Blog #67~Dear Abby, Down syndrome and Autism Style

Blog #67~ Dear Abby, Down syndrome and Autism Style…

Dear Abby

Advice Columnist, Dear Abby 🙂

It’s comforting to know that as a parent of a child who has Down syndrome and autism I can click the mouse and find support online. When Nick was born 19 years ago, a nurse handed me a couple of brochures on Down syndrome.  That was it!   This is the vision sustained me after hearing of Nick’s diagnosis of Down syndrome. Thank you, Chris Burke…..Actor, advocate, icon, my rock star!

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Ten years later we would meet Chris in person at the National Down Syndrome Congress convention.  (For more information: http:// www. ndsccenter.org)

My older son, Hank with Chris Burke at the NDSC  Convention……

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There are several groups that I belong to on Facebook. (Just type in “Down syndrome and autism” in the search engine.) These parents are going through many adversities trying to get through the day and night with their kids.  Most are sleep deprived because their children are up all night turning on lights stimming, banging things against the wall, and opening and slamming doors.  I dedicate this week’s blog to these brave warriors who get up weary, reaching for the Visine and Advil to take on another day.

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Down syndrome and autism support groups are a safe haven to share war stories, tips, get advice, commiserate and laugh.  No one flinches when a parent writes about a walk on the local nature trail, and stopping to go back to their dawdling child.  The 11 year old stood there having just pooped in the middle of the path. What can I say but, it happens.   Topics last week were varied.  One mom needed help on how to explain and guide her daughter about getting her period.  I added a comment about a great book that tackles puberty and body privacy issues called:  “Taking Care of Myself,” by Mary Wrobel.  There were dozens of helpful tips from other parents who had daughters that had dealt with this issue.  Another parent had just given birth to a baby who has Down syndrome.  I was moved by all the support given to this new mom. Here are just a few of the many offered to her:

  • “Go home and bond and love your baby”
  • “Congratulations you have been blessed.”
  • “Get regular checkups and a heart echogram to rule out heart defects.”
  • “Low muscle tone may make it difficult to nurse your child but don’t give up.”
  • “Focus on the baby, not the Down syndrome.”
  • “Go to www.noahsdad.com it has great information presented positively.”
  • “Check out www.futureofdowns.com it has a lot of good information.”

It’s good to know that the struggles of feeding, toileting, hygiene, sleeping, sensory, gross and fine motor issues are felt by so many parents.   For a long time I was alone.  I pulled away from the Down syndrome support groups because I didn’t fit in.  Nick didn’t progress like the kids who just had Down syndrome.  After Nick’s diagnosis of autism I reached out to the Chicago based group, National Down Syndrome Association: http://www.nads.org.  Within NADS, there is a group is called “More than just Down syndrome.”  I found a new home here.  We have a unique bond because these parents get it!

We’ve have been through it all with Nick.  Our days are far from perfect. He still wakes up some nights but at least he isn’t banging the walls or turning on all the lights.  But some things have become easier as he has matured into an adult.  Just yesterday we gave him the best, most cooperative haircut ever!  Miracles do happen. 🙂

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As I wrote about in Blog #66, reaching out to a support group has helped me realize that I am not alone on this path. I’m not the only one who has bent down and had to clean up my child’s poop.  Bless these warrior parents for getting up and fighting the good fight!  That’s what is in my noggin this week!

~Teresa

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Happy Labor Day

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Happy Labor Day everyone. I am embracing the holiday and taking a blog break this week.  If you haven’t read last year’s back to school blog check it out:

https://nickspecialneeds.wordpress.com/2012/08/27/blog-19-back-to-school/

Enjoy your holiday and see you next week!

~Teresa

Posted in Autism, Down syndrome, Recreation/Leisure and Special Needs

Blog #66~Taking the Leap to a Support Group

Blog #66~Taking the Leap to a Support Group

I can’t make it there.  I have two boys that are 19 months apart under the age of two.”

“I have it under control.”

“We are okay.  There is no need to reach out to the local Down syndrome support group.”

“I have no energy to get out in the evening to make it to a meeting.”

Those are some of the excuses I have used.  It’s hard to take the leap to a support group.  Over the years friends and teachers have offered names and phone numbers of other parents whose children had Down syndrome.  I found it difficult to make those cold calls as well.  It’s not easy to open up and be vulnerable around people you don’t know.  Every parent handles the diagnosis of a child’s disability in their own way.

Eventually I did reach out to the local Down syndrome support group.  What I found was a community of individuals who had been on their own roller coaster of emotions.  They had dealt with uncertainty and doubt.  They had experienced anger, fear, worry, sorrow and guilt.  These parents offered encouragement and reassurance.  In addition, support groups can provide a forum for sharing feelings and concerns as well as providing information, advocacy and resources available.  See more information at: http://www.ndss.org/Resources/New-Expectant-Parents/Finding-Support/#sthash.dTRJb4bF.dpuf.

When we moved out to the east bay area outside San Francisco we didn’t know anyone.  The Down Syndrome Connection: http://www.dsconnection.org  provided resources, after school classes, social events and an invaluable kinship.

5 Year old Nick with his buddy playing in the Challenger Baseball League….

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Nick at the Down Syndrome Connection Picnic 🙂

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Before we relocated to the Chicago area twelve years ago, the local support group called National Down Syndrome Association, NADS: http:// www.nads.org,  provided a list of parents that lived in the area which we were planning to look for a home.  These parents were so open to answer my questions about school districts and gave me emotional support even before the moving truck had pulled up to our house.  NADS continues to provide services and has been instrumental in making a difference with Nick having the second diagnosis of autism.  Within NADS, there is also a sub-group called “Down syndrome and More,” which holds retreats for families dealing with a second diagnosis.

Nick at the NADS Retreat….. 🙂

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Music Therapy at the NADS Retreat…..

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These days there are multitudes of online support groups and Facebook pages to reach out to.  There are several Facebook groups specific to Down syndrome and autism.  Be sure and check out my resource page for more.  As a parent I have gone through phases where I thought I had things under control.  When Nick’s body was raging with hormones during puberty he had massive meltdowns.  After talking to a few parents whose children had Down syndrome also had autism, I realized the need to get help.  I also quit being ashamed that I was a bad parent that couldn’t control my child.  By reaching out to the support groups for assistance, I found out that I was not alone.  It has made all the difference.

Help is out there, sometimes you just have to take a breath and make the leap.  That’s what is in my noggin this week.

~Teresa

Posted in Autism, Down syndrome

Blog #65~Tour De Nick

Blog #65~ Tour De Nick

Here’s how the scene sets up……Enter Nick into the Fox Valley Park District Recreation Center with bike helmet in hand walking appropriately down the corridor. He gives the queen wave (his signature hello to patrons passing by). Great start, yes! 🙂 We got there early, and waited in the viewing area.  Without warning, Nick suddenly hurled his helmet at the receptionist.  I threw my hand up trying to deflect it, but missed.  His helmet narrowly skims the side of her face.  This is shaping up to be a long week…. I Can Shine- Lose the Training Wheels Bike Camp… Hmmm, what the hell was I thinking?

I was thinking that after the success of his scuba experience that maybe I should try to expand his horizons.  Check the May 2013 archives to read about this in Blog #53~Scuba Diving, Really?   Click here and check it out:  https://nickspecialneeds.wordpress.com/2013/05/06/blog-53scuba-diving

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Had I been limiting my son’s potential due to his dual diagnosis of Down syndrome and autism?  It was time to try something new and bike camp seemed like a good plan to move him forward.

At the parent meeting the staff went explained of how the week would go. Approximately 80% of the individuals who participate in our iCan Bike programs ride a two-wheel bicycle independently by the end of our five-day programs. The remaining 20% of these individuals make tremendous progress towards this goal and leave our programs accompanied by parents and/or siblings trained as ‘spotters’ to pick up where we leave off!  The bikes used are lower so that the child’s feet can easily touch the ground upon stopping.  Roller wheels are put on the back to better aid in balance.  As the week progresses the wheels are changed out to wean the rider off and get them on two wheels.  For more information visit, http://icanshine.org.

Armed with a task strip of images we proceeded…..

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Day 1:

Nick entered the venue along with 7 other kids who have special needs.  Some were hesitant to get on the bike right away.  The volunteers managed to get the helmet on him, then Nick proceeded to do a stop, drop and plop on the ground.  After some coaxing he finally got up and sat  on his designated bike with roller wheels on the back.  Getting started pedaling was tough and he is unable to balance.  He couldn’t steer at all.  The bike began to shift back and forth across the tennis court like a metal ball bouncing off the bumpers inside a pin ball machine in slow motion.   I cringed… A turtle could have beaten him easily down the court.  He stopped often and I could see him pinching his cheeks (a sign that he is frustrated.) Through the glass I could tell he was cursing too.  I took off to buy him a Sprite to use as a reward each time he made a lap around the courts.  75 minutes each day for 5 days, I wasn’t sure this was going to work out.

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Day 2:

I pulled into the parking lot and Nick began to clap.  Whew that’s a good sign. 🙂 Nick accepted the helmet much better.  He was able to handle more laps around the tennis court going a bit faster and seemed to pinch his cheeks less. It was great to see him ride the tandem bike and stay in sync with the staff member behind him. Reward for the day, Taco Bell!  I am going to put 5 pounds on easily this week, ugghhh

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Day 3:

The staff announced that this is the most exciting day of the week.  “Today is launch day.”  🙂  “Many of the kids will be taking off on two wheels!”  Parents were encouraged to come in and cheer, take pictures and celebrate.  I got a lump in my throat seeing these kids take off with success. Pride was written across the smiles on their faces.  Nick was making improvements but still had trouble pushing the pedals.  He worked on the trainer with a goal to pedal ten times in a row.  The staff reported that he was able to balance better and was starting to steer and turn more on his own.  However, he would be a failure to launch.

Day 4:

This was move in day for his older brother, Hank who attends Northern Illinois University.

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Nick’s respite worker, Lara said he was up on two wheels with the spotters close at hand.  He had a good day and enjoyed lunch at McDonalds afterwards.

Day 5:

Nick started out on the trainer to work on pedaling technique.  He road the roller wheel bike, tandem bike and the 2 wheeler bike with a handle on the back.  I took a video of him on the 2 wheeler bike. He was so slow that the footage looked like a still frame picture.  Nick was the last remaining cyclist to head outside and the only one who didn’t launch on two wheels. The iCan Ride staff recommended we put him on a 24 inch cruiser bike with a handle attached to the back.  She felt he made progress balancing and turning and encouraged him to come back next year. The  Fox Valley Special Recreation Association coordinator  gathered the kids together for a group picture.  Each child was rewarded a special license to ride.

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I am glad that Nick had this experience.  My goals for the week:

  1. Give him something to do that was structured and physical.
  2. See if he could pedal so we could possibly look into getting a tandem bike.
  3. Wear him out so he wouldn’t drive me bonkers while he is out of school. 🙂

Nick made improvements and endured more each day, plus he didn’t have any meltdowns. Did he enjoy it as much as the scuba experience? No, but at least he tried something new and it was not an epic fail.  Will we do it again?  That depends on whether he pulls those bike camp icons out of his picture communication book and requests it.  You never know until you try…That’s what is in my noggin this week.

~Teresa

Posted in Autism, Down syndrome, Government/Legal Matters Related to Special Needs

Blog #64~When Your Child With Special Needs Hits Adult Age

Blog #64~ When Your Child With Special Needs Hits Adult Age

What happens when a child with special needs hit the age of 18?  While other parents are busy visiting college campuses and searching for extra-long sheets for the dorm bed, a parent with a child with special needs is going down a different path.

Nick’s legs are long and hairy like a man, but he still enjoys sitting like a kid.  That along with watching Disney movies and Thomas the Tank Engine….. Welcome to Nick’s world 🙂

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Our son, Nick has Down syndrome and autism.  He is unable to take care of himself and live independently.  When he turned 18 years old we had to file with the court to become his legal guardian.  This process involves a trip to the courthouse to fill out paperwork, pays some fees, secure a court date and then appear in court before a judge with your child. We did not use an attorney but the advantage would be that you get in the queue faster.  Each year you are required to submit an annual report, (available from the county courthouse website), 30 days before the yearly court date.

The next step was to apply for SSI (Supplemental Security Income.)  Supplemental Security Income (or SSI) is a United States government program that provides stipends to low-income people who are either aged (65 or older), blind, or disabled. It is administered by the Social Security Administration and funded from the U.S. Treasury general funds, not the Social Security trust fund.  The application process can be done online (www.socialsecurity.gov).  Once this is processed, a phone interview is scheduled where the application is reviewed and verified.  Determination of how much the stipend will be is based on the applicant’s income, residency/ living arrangement, and resources.

The next item of business in our state was this;  when a child with special needs turns the age of 19 in the state of Illinois, it is required that you apply with the Department of Human Services (DHS) for the adult waiver which covers medical benefits and funding for respite care.  Nick had been receiving state funding through a child based waiver under the umbrella of Medicare.  The funds are used for medical benefits if needed and respite care which allows me to still teach my classes and go out and go out and have a life on occasion.  It is essential to do this before the end of the month of the child’s 19th birthday.  I found myself tangled up in some major *red tape not realizing this.  Be sure and scroll back to Blog #44~Who’s in Control? ( scroll down the right side to the March 2013 archives) for the full story about that debacle! Spoiler alert in case you missed Blog #44 the first time….. oh my!  🙂

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Managing a child over the age of 18 years old has become a part time job.  Every month, all the receipts on Nick’s expenses have to be entered on a spreadsheet to manage his checking account. If the account gets above a specified amount, SSI will be denied.  Each year the annual reports and accounting records have to be reviewed by the county judge and the Social Security Administration. The matters associated with becoming an adult special needs citizen is serious business.  Staying on top of things is essential.  Many school districts offer transition fairs and provide guest speakers who offer valuable information regarding how to navigate through the hoops of bureaucracy.    My advice is to take advantage and learn all you can before your child hits adult age. Oh, one last note~ All 18-year-old males must register for the draft, that’s right even those with special needs. The image of Nick wearing a camo uniform holding a M-16, priceless. 🙂 That’s what is in my noggin this week.

~Teresa

*Red Tape is a derogatory term for bureaucratic methods, derived from the fastening for departmental bundles of documents in Britain. 

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 According to Wikipedia:

The origin of the term is somewhat obscure, but it is first noted in historical records in the 16th century when Henry VIII besieged Pope Clement VII with around eighty or so petitions for the annulment of his marriage to Catherine of Aragon. A photo of the petitions from Cardinal Wolsey and others, now stored in the Vatican archives, can be seen on page 160 of “Saints and Sinners, a history of The Popes”, by Eamon Duffy (published by Yale University Press in 1997). The documents can be viewed rolled and stacked in their original condition, each one sealed and bound with the obligatory red tape, as was the custom.

It appears likely that it was the Spanish administration of Charles V in the early 16th century, who started to use the red tape in an effort to modernize the administration that was running his vast empire. The red tape was used to bind the important administrative dossiers that had to be discussed by the Council of State, and separate them from the issues that were treated in an ordinary administrative way, which were bound by an ordinary rope.

All American Civil War veterans’ records were bound in red tape, and the difficulty in accessing them led to the modern American use of the term,[5] but there is evidence (as detailed above) that the term was in use in its modern sense sometime before this.”

Posted in Autism, Fun Side of Nick

Blog #63~Furry Family Members

Blog #63~Furry Family Members

It is with great sadness that I begin this piece by telling you that our cat of 17 years has passed away.  She has been such a part of our family history and will be dearly missed.

I posted this picture on Facebook last Saturday and received so many thoughtful sentiments.  I often post pictures and updates about Miss Mellie.  It appears she had quite a following……..

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I loved her from afar.”

“She warmed the hearts of many of us on Facebook too.”

“Miss Mellie stories have been endearing and a bright spot in my week.”

“We take in theses wonderful animals, love them, take care of them and they become part of our family. Part of our daily routine, part of our home and part of our life. When they are gone it is like an emptiness that is hard to explain to someone who doesn’t have a pet. But those of us who do…we understand your pain and wish we could help you. miss seeing her face.”

“So sad, I will miss the Mellie stories.”

“Oh, I am so sorry. A furry loss is a tough one.”

Our son, Nick who has Down syndrome and autism had a lot of fun with Miss Mellie over the years.  If you are a regular follower of the blog you know about a lot of the pranks he has pulled on her.  Nick’s antics have given me enough material to write two blogs, Stuff on My Cat (Blog #33 located in the December 2012 archives) and Stuff on My Cat, Part II (located in the July 2013 archives.)  Here are the last two things he put on our sweet, gray tabby 🙂

Oh no, looks like Miss Mellie is getting some deep pressure with the therapy ball….

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Nick thought she might enjoy some music, rock on kitty……

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Harold makes a rough landing into the cat food.  Hardy har har, Nick 🙂

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On our cross country move from Livermore, California here to the Chicagoland area we stopped for the night in Reno. Six year old Nick decided to do a little “Magic Mike” action for Miss Mellie.  I don’t think she was too impressed……..

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A sweet moment between Nick and our cat. By the way, he hasn’t handed me the icon picture of her out of his PECS communication book yet.  But I know he will soon.  That moment will be a tearful one for me 😦

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She shared so much love with our family and friends. She adored being in Hank’s arms and seem to comfortably nestle there……

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Snuggled in with Al, she was a good lap cat…..

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She insisted on being on my lap, helping me to write 🙂

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I will miss so many things about our cat like how she follows the sun beams throughout the day and running into the kitchen whenever she heard the can opener, tuna!…….

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How she parked herself in front of the fireplace during the winter months waiting for  the hearth to be prepared for her……

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Most of all I will miss our lap time together, the sound of her purring, her warmth and the love that she gave all of us. Thank you KB (my cat loving friend), for framing this picture and giving it to me last Christmas.  I will cherish it always…….

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A younger and heavier Mellie that my sister, Laura gave me… Aaahh she’s so cute…..

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My friend Jimmie P. shared this quote on my Facebook wall…..

There has never been a cat who couldn’t calm me down by walking slowly past my chair.”
~Rod McCuan

That’s what is in my noggin this week.  Rest in peace, Miss Mellie.

~Teresa

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Posted in Autism, Autism Safety and Wandering

Blog #62~Wandering and Autism, Part II

Blog #62~Wandering and Autism, Part II

One of the worst nightmares any parent can experience is a missing child. It’s awful to imagine that it can happen.  Being prepared is important in case the nightmare ever becomes a reality.

A few weeks ago in Blog #60~Wandering and Autism @https://nickspecialneeds.wordpress.com/2013/07/01/blog-60wandering-and-autism/   I wrote about a personal experience we had when Nick took off and provided some safety tips and links.  This week I want to expand on this topic and provide more resources that I have found.

I placed a call to our local police department here in Aurora, IL to see what systems they had in place for dealing with a lost child who has special needs.  The detective assured me that all missing child cases are handled as high priority.  Canine units are also utilized in searches as well.  I found it interesting that all intersections are equipped with cameras that are monitored 24/7.  Since this phone call I have provided the police department with the vital information about my son Nick, who has Down syndrome and autism.

Information to provide to local police department:

Child’s name

Home address with names of family members and phone numbers

Child’s diagnosis/ is the child verbal or non-verbal?

Physical features (height, weight, etc…)

Behavior concerns (no fear of danger, possibility of a meltdown, how to approach child)

Current school

Our address is now flagged in the department’s data base with this information.  Check with your local police department to see what system they have in place.  Some departments such as nearby Naperville and Plainfield, IL both offer the GPS bracelets (through the police departments) for special needs kids and the elderly with a tendency to wander.  The bracelet costs about $150.  Radio monitoring kicks in upon calling 911.  There is no cost and the police are in charge of this. If there is a financial hardship, check to see if the department will waive the cost of the bracelet. The device is called Care-Trak  (www.caretrak.com).

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Here is another site with some great safety devices and information:

http://www.autismspeaks.org/family-services/resource-library/safety-products

In addition, there are phone apps that are available for monitoring and providing information to the authorities about your child.  Here are a few that I found:

iPhone Baby Monitor ($4.99) acts much like a baby monitor does to watch your child while they are sleeping.

Kids ID ($3.99) Takes recent pictures of your kids so they are readily available, plus you can input their size, medical history, and other important data that would help law enforcement find your child as soon as possible. The app allows you to send all of your child’s information directly to law-enforcement agencies.

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KidStatz ($0.99) provides you with the opportunity to store information about your kids in the iPhone that can later be shared with law enforcement if they go missing. As with Kids ID, the app lets you to take a picture of your kids, input important identifying information, what kind of medical conditions they have, and any birth marks or other identifying information that might help law enforcement find your children. The app also provides a way to e-mail or call law enforcement to quickly react to your missing child.

Pictures and videos of your child in a natural setting (not forced smiles) are advisable to have available for officers as well.  If your child is drawn to anything (railroad, water, small spaces, etc..) be sure to include that information to the police department.

The following advanced GPS locaters range from $125-$250 and the monthly monitoring fees vary:

Angel Sense GPS tracking device (www.angelsense.com)

Amber Alert GPS tracking device (www.amberalertgps.com)

Trax GPS tracking device (www.traxfamily.com)

Being prepared and proactive is vital if you have a child who wanders or likes to bolt.  I hope these tips and links will help insure the safety of all children and especially those who have autism and other special needs.  That’s what is in my noggin this week!

~Teresa

Posted in Fun Side of Nick

Summer Break

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Time for a summer break.  I will be taking the next two weeks off.  There are 61 blogs available in the archives to enjoy in the meantime.

Categories for the stories include:

 Autism

Behavior/ABA

Community jobs for persons with special needs

Down syndrome

Government agencies/ legal matters and special needs

Personal hygiene and special needs

Special needs education

Special needs supports

Special needs recreation activities

Speech and occupational therapy

The fun side of  Nick

Video based instruction and tech supports

Wandering and autism

If you haven’t read about how we manage to travel and what vacations look like with Nick I would highly suggest reading Blog #16- Up, Up and Away (located in July 2012 archives)

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In addition read Blog #17~Life’s a Beach (located in August 2012 archives.)

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One final update for you…….The little stinker managed to pull another fire alarm at summer school last week.  That’s number 28 for those of you keeping score at home.

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That’s Nick’s world…..The rest of us are just trying to keep up! See you in a couple of weeks.  Thank you for your support and please share this blog to anyone you like. 🙂

Happy Summer!

~Teresa 🙂

Posted in Autism, Fun Side of Nick

Blog #61~Stuff On My Cat Part II

Blog #61~ Stuff on my Cat Part II

Stuff + Cats= Awesome

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That’s the motto for the internet phenomenon called “Stuff on my cat.”  Here’s what Amazon wrote about this book by Mario Garza:

“It began with a handful of digital photographs of office supplies, toys, and spare computer parts thoughtfully placed on Mario Garza’s snoozing cat, Love. Over time, the objects became bigger: remote controls, shoes, empty pizza boxes. And then cat owners everywhere were sucked into the Internet phenomenon that is defined by a simple motto: stuff + cats = awesome.  Culled from the thousands of outrageous photographs submitted by mischievous animal lovers, here are 200 of the most unbelievably entertaining images of cats with all manner of things on them: wigs, Easter eggs, dogs, cheeseburgers, cookware, gummi bears, action figures, tiaras, beer cans, pinecones, a statue of the Buddha, and much more. An introduction by the site’s creator explains the Stuff on My Cat philosophy, and playful illustrations and graphics are sprinkled throughout.”

In Blog #33~Stuff On My Cat (located in the December 2012 Archives), I wrote and shared numerous pictures of random objects we put on our cats over the years.  Why do we do this?  I have to embrace Mario Garza’s philosophy to answer this one.  Our cats rule the house.  Sleeping all day long wherever the sun radiates, claiming the fresh, warm laundry as their “personal paradise” and plopping on your lap even if you just want to sit down for a second.

God forbid you disturb them.  I have to contort my legs with bizarre yoga moves  slinking out of bed so as not to disturb her slumber. She wields her power at 5:00 a.m. letting out piercing cries and meows that sound as if you haven’t fed her in a week.  So, why put stuff on our cats?  Mario Garza is right on his philosophy:  “There is a very satisfying shift of power going on.  Now I’m in control when I sneak up behind her while she naps and put a pancake on top of her head-checkmate.” 🙂

Check out a few from the website www.stuffonmycat.com……

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Nick loves to do this too,  he is 19 and has Down syndrome and autism.  Here are some of the stunts he’s pulled on our 16+ year old  tabby……..

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Mellie has some company, Nick’s plush animals and a Taco Bell dog….

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Another deluge of toys along with a package of microwave popcorn…..

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Mellie is trying to relax in her 1:00 p.m. sun spot.  Nick had other ideas his PECS icons, (Picture Exchange System.) I think he was communicating that he missed his brother, Hank and friend/respite worker, Bobby……

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Apparently Nick thinks Mellie is expecting an important call…. 🙂

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More fun with PECS icons….Nick mapped out his agenda last Friday…….

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“Oh Kitty, go get me some Sprite please!”

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I get a kick out of how creative Nick is and appreciate his mischievous side.  Here is one of Nick who had been “stimming” (a trait of autism) with my makeup mirror. He fell asleep next to the cat who had melded herself to a warm towel out of  the dryer…… apparently the cat doesn’t hold a grudge….. 🙂

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Speaking of being mischievous, here are a couple I did.  Oh I just can’t resist every once in awhile…. hee, hee, hee…… 🙂

Cinco de Mayo Mellie….. Ole!

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“The Graduate”

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Hope you enjoyed the second installment of stuff on my cat.  Next week I will get back to part two of “Wandering and Autism”.  Sometimes its fun to be mischievous. That’s what is in my noggin this week, meow!

~Teresa 🙂